We get good mileage out of tidying up our homes in early December until early January. It’s a natural time to clean up to make room for invited guests and for decorations such as the Christmas tree.
Things get moved here to there and temporarily stored away to make room for new items, and it gets us thinking about our homes and the things we own. In this 1500 square foot house we’re (practically ) five grown ups, so this is a regular necessity.
I read if you blog and you’re a woman you blog less in the summer because of attention pulled elsewhere: to gardens, to kids (if you have them) because they’re no longer in school, and to holidays. So true in my experience.
When I think to sit down and share with you a great recipe, an interesting link or opinion, I get side tracked by life. Potted flowers need watering, lawn needs mowing, I need to be outside and take in the beauty of the season, and so on. And kids, even though they may be big (like mine are) need attention, too. (I write this while in the midst of getting ready to join Simon in Cape Cod for five days. Sans enfants!!)
Something else that occupies a good chunk of my time lately is helping to organize the Glebe House Tour. This fall’s group of five homes is wonderful. Before I leave for Cape Cod, how’s about I give you peek inside one them.
It was built in the early 1900’s and recently renovated, guided by the vision of its homeowners, Jenny and Alain.
I love this home. It’s welcoming, comfy and elegant. I love its spaciousness even though it’s not an open concept home. In fact, no walls were torn down during the renovation. However, hallways were widened and openings were created in some walls allowing for very pleasing sight lines into adjacent rooms.
And light! Maybe it’s because I feel I have to wait for or seek out good light in our home that I was so taken with the abundance of beautiful light in this one. Not only light, but beautiful views to the outside as well. In fact, there are window views of Ottawa’s Rideau canal from practically every room.
Add to those qualities a wonderful blend of custom-built and antique furniture plus great finds from Home Sense and Ikea, and carefully chosen fixtures and original art, and you have yourself a very beautiful home.
Our new bathroom is just like the old bathroom, only better.
The old fixtures were removed and replaced. We now have a beautiful and deep soaker tub to better accommodate the tall folks in our home, a new sink (not at all unlike its predecessor in its pedestal design), and a new high tech toilet with hands-free functions to keep the toilet cleaner for longer – the less often hands touch things the cleaner things remain. The toilet was Simon’s choice and, although it took getting used to, I think I’m beginning to like it. Especially that it seems to stay cleaner longer.
Faucets and towel holders were upgraded.
You can program the toilet so the seat opens when you enter the room, flushes itself once you’re finished and closes a few minutes later.
Everything is in the same place as before (except for a light switch) and the footprint hasn’t moved a smidgen. Yet the bathroom feels bigger because we installed a pocket door.
The floor is also new. I love the look of hexagon tiles and how good they feel on bare feet.
We kept the wainscoting and only removed it from around the chimney to expose more of the brick.
Ceiling, walls, trim and wainscoting are painted the same colour, “parchment” by C2.
Wondering where we’re at with our bathroom renovation? Well, the tub is finally out of the living room and installed in the bathroom.
It’s a five-foot long deep soaker tub. Since water weighs a lot (one kilogram per litre) our contractor wanted to be certain we wouldn’t come crashing down through the floor and into the kitchen on our first dip into the bathtub.
Rather than fill the tub with water (and risk having THAT mess to deal with should the floor not be able to withstand the weight) he chose a static weight; he placed in the tub several sand bags, totaling hundreds of pounds, and then jumped in to add to the load.
Turns out this old house’s structure is sound enough and we can bathe without anxiety. Phew!
Speaking of certainty, I was roasting carrots to feed my family the other night, certain I had prepared enough for my hungry crowd. But when I pulled them from the oven they had considerably shrunk and the amount seemed scant.
My wise daughter suggested I add spinach to bulk things up. So I added several handfuls of tender spinach to the hot cookie sheet, tossed it among the carrots (which helped it slightly wilt), added salt and pepper, a squeeze of lemon juice, and voila!
Coincidently, I recently came upon this recipe, which inspired me to take this dish to the next level by adding spices, pine nuts and raisins. The result is a flavourful and hearty dish, packed with nutrients. It’s colourful and pretty, too. And I love to eat pretty things. Don’t you?
These are the amounts I used to feed five hungry people as a side dish.
Roasted carrots with pine nuts, spinach and raisins
14 medium carrots, scrubbed and cut into 1-inch pieces
4 tablespoons olive oil
2 teaspoons spice of your choice (I used freshly grated nutmeg)
3/4 cup raisins (or dried cranberries or cherries)
1/2 cup pine nuts (or pumpkin seeds)
juice of 1/2 a lemon
Several handfuls of tender spinach (or mesclun greens)
Salt and pepper to taste
Preheat oven to 425 degrees F.
Line a rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper.
In a large bowl, toss carrots with olive oil and spice of your choice. Spread out on prepared baking sheet and roast 20 minutes or until carrots are tender with golden brown edges.
Remove from oven. Scatter raisins and pine nuts on hot baking sheet and gently toss.
Add spinach to carrots and toss gently.
Finish with a squeeze of lemon, a pinch of sea salt and pepper to taste.
My next blog post was going to be about a beautifully designed chair I’ve been admiring. But Simon suggested I write about how we’re fixing up the upstairs bathroom. “People love before and afters,” he said.
So here’s a sneak peak as we revamp one of the smallest albeit most important rooms in our more than 125 year-old home.
Perhaps you think the bathroom looks fine as is. True. But a closer inspection would reveal tired, chipped and peeling fixtures. Even though we invested money and endured toxic fumes to have them resurfaced and painted, they became chipped again. The sink is an eye sore, the bathtub is dangerous to our bottoms (ouch!), and the toilet wobbles.
Since it’s one of the most highly used rooms in our home it deserves to be a priority, don’t you think?
So a few weeks ago, after carefully measuring the space, Simon set off to a local hardware store and picked out a new bathtub and faucet, sink and toilet. When he saw something he liked, he sent photos with a text message for approval. And that was that.
Now to find the right attitude while we deal with the disruptions. For example, when we have to pee in the middle of the night we have to travel down two sets of stairs and back up again. By the time I get back into bed I’m wide awake! No more herbal tea before bedtime, I guess.
But it’s a first world problem and I’ll avoid complaining. Given all the homeless and refugees of this world, I’m grateful for our cozy home and that we have the means with which to renovate it.
I can’t wait until it all comes together. Stay tuned!
Above: We love the brick chimney. The plan is to remove and use the wainscoting that’s covering it up to repair any damage that needs to occur to the wainscoting in the rest of the bathroom. We talked about removing all of it and tiling instead, but it’s in such good condition and suits the character of our home.
Above: We need to replace the old pine floor as it needs to be torn up to deal with the plumbing. We’re going with this tile. The colour was inspired by a colour pulled from the bricks in the chimney.
Above: See what I mean? Eye sore.
Above: This cabinet, which must be as old as the house, needs a little love and care but it stays. Out with the old and in with the new, but not all the time.
Above: Renovation is underway. I have some painting to do!
Above: Three hundred pounds of cast iron sitting in a snowbank waiting to be picked up. We offered it for free on kijiji and had loads of interest.
I’m the kind of person who likes to shed stuff regularly. I’ve never been a collector. I see value and magic in having less stuff and I feel best living amongst meaningful and useful things. I’m clutter averse and I try to encourage my family to be the same way.
I’m also part of a large and ever-growing group of people who has had to downsize for a parent who, over the years, didn’t pare down or separate the meaningful and useful things from the clutter.
Almost a year ago, my sisters and I processed and cleared everything from my Dad’s home (my mom died several years earlier). I wrote a bit about it here.
If you’ve ever gone through this experience you become acutely aware of what’s in store for your children in the future, and you feel a strong resolve to not heap upon them the same burden.
The time and energy spent sorting through a parent’s lifetime worth of stuff, coupled with the responsibility to honor the past, is exhausting and overwhelming. It takes a toll emotionally, physically and financially. It can require long plane flights, taking time off work without pay, and leaving family behind to cope in your absence. And if you and your siblings are not on the same page, it can cause tension and arguments.
I’ve read about cases where people pull up a dumpster and get rid of stuff that way. But that approach wasn’t for us. We worked hard to deal with Dad’s belongings thoughtfully and respectfully. We separated the meaningful stuff from the clutter. We doled out heirlooms diplomatically and found good homes for treasured items. We advertised and held a moving sale. What didn’t sell we donated to worthy causes. What was left went in the garbage. It took 5 weeks in total, working day and night. We did it gracefully without tension or arguments, which I’ve also read is rare.
So don’t wait. Clear your clutter and lighten your load now. If we spend the first 40 years of our lives accumulating and collecting, it seems to me we should spend the next 40 years letting go.
It’s nothing short of a gift of love.
Above: My Mom’s beautiful collection of tea cups found a good home. They went to Beaverbrook House, an historic home in Miramichi that holds tea services open to the public.
Above: Crystal for sale.
Above: We sorted through all of Mom’s artwork and sketches.
Above: What we didn’t keep for ourselves, my sister framed with old frames found around the house and we added them to the items for sale. It feels right knowing Mom’s art will be hanging in so many homes.
Above: We polished up the furniture and staged the house to get ready for the big sale, which took place over two days.
Above: My sister was full of clever ideas. One of them was to bundle the towels and facecloths rather than sell them individually. They were snatched up quickly.
Bringing fresh greenery inside to adorn our homes is a winter tradition since ancient times.
Our ancestors believed bringing boughs indoors gives the ability to sustain winter’s darkest days; if evergreens can endure and thrive during the long winter so we can.
Fragrant, texturally appealing and visually delighting, fresh greenery is a gift for all the senses. It looks beautiful, freshens, humidifies and scents indoor air, which is essential during winter months when inside air is dry. And if kept moist and cool greenery can last a long time without wilting.
While we wait for springs return, be inspired to fill your home with the beauty and scent of fresh greenery all season.
Above: Cedar and boxwood from our yard. Urban dwellers, without ready access to fields and meadows to forage, rely on local florists for a fresh and more varied supply of greenery.
+–AKA-Above: My neighbourhood florist shop, Bloomfields Flowers, is full of aromatic greenery, festive flowers and wintry decor that can remain in your home long after the holidays are over and decorations are stored away. Bloomfields staff create all kinds of custom arrangements using winter’s greenery all season long.
Above: Bloomfields’ shop is filled with birch, boxwood, cedar, fir, magnolia and pine, seasonal flowers such as paperwhites and amaryllis, and other wintry items.
Above: The decor spills from the shop to the walkway outdoors. Boughs for sale! Boughs for sale!
Above: Magnolia leaves make stunning wreaths like this one designed by Bloomfields staff. I love the large glossy dark green leaves with their velvety, brown undersides. The leaves hold up very well even without water, too.
Above: Boughs and wreaths need moisture in order to exhale humidity and that deliciously wintry scent. If you bring greenery indoors treat it as you would cut flowers; the cooler and more humid it is, the longer it will last. Leave a mister bottle near the arrangement you have indoors and give the needles a healthy spritz now and again.
Make your house fair as you are able, trim the hearth and set the table. Eleanor Farjeon (1881-1965)
Every early December, for the past 10 years, my friend Cindy thoughtfully decorates her home, stocks up on red and white wine, prepares sweet and savory edibles, displays them on lovely plates, platters and wooden boards, and invites about 20 neighbourhood moms over to mix and mingle. Before the evening ends, we gather around the tree and exchange Christmas ornaments.
Such hospitality is wonderful for folks like me who are slow to catch the Christmas spirit.
Here’s a peak around her cozy and elegant home on that particular night. Maybe it will ignite your Christmas spirit, too.
Above: A single branch trimmed with small felt ornaments in a pot topped with moss. Simple and lovely.Above: I wished I had taken a photo of this yummy Warm Black Bean and Chipolte Dip before I dug into it. It’s served pretty much right out of the oven, hence the kitchen towel around the handle. It protects hands and fingers, and it’s pretty.
Above: Less is more; three wise men made from recycled tin from Bloomfields, a row of poinsettias and a platter of pomegranates.
Above: Paperwhites and dogwood branches.
Above: Decorations to be treasured for years to come. I love the wooden tree advent calendar and the Santa nesting doll. The beautiful glass Christmas trees are from Bloomfields.
Above: Everyone brings a wrapped ornament and places it under the tree. We draw numbers from a hat, gather near the Christmas tree for dessert, and then take turns choosing a wrapped ornament. You never know what you’ll get.